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		<title>David DeAngelo Double Your Dating Review &#124; Is Double Your Dating Scam or Legit?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Apr 2011 03:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kyla Love</dc:creator>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><em>Reviewed by my friend John Blake</em></p>
<p><strong>My Unbiased David DeAngelo Double Your Dating Review</strong><br />
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<p><a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank"><strong>David DeAngelo Double Your Dating</strong></a>, scam or legit? There has been a discussion online whether the principles David DeAngelo teaches in his famous book are real or just plain fake. Is he teaching just a bunch of gimmicks or do his teachings really work and help you attract the opposite sex? I guess the main question becomes; Is the author of the World’s leading pick up book looking to deceive you or does he really have good intentions?</p>
<p>You’re about to find out in this unbiased review. I’ll just put it bluntly and say it like it is. If it sucks, you’ll know it. If it doesn’t, you’ll know it too. Let’s dive right into it…</p>
<p>First of all, it’s hard to tell what exactly David DeAngelo Double Your Dating teaches without knowing what it has to say first so I took the plunge and got my hands on a copy for a closer look. I figured it wouldn’t kill me to at least try it. Come on, if I’m really serious about this, the least I can do is have a look at it.</p>
<p>Anyway, this article will have a full overview of what exactly David DeAngelo teaches in his book Double Your Dating and what my personal experience is with his book.<br />
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Ok, here is my honest David DeAngelo Double Your Dating review:</strong><br />
First of all, in his book <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">Double Your Dating</a>, David DeAngelo starts off explaining why so many men have a hard time attracting women. He believes social conditioning has dramatically increased men to fail with women. Men have been taught completely wrong things since the beginning of times, like being overly nice to women, buy them gifts, compliment them and impress them in all the wrong manners. It seems common sense, your logic tells you to be nice as it seems like the right thing to do, but it’s wrong. Most men just follow a bunch of principles that are out-dated and don’t work anymore, perhaps never did. What makes a woman sit up straight and pay attention is not a guy who is overly being nice. We can be all nice but we don’t usually sleep with someone who is ‘<em>just nice</em>’, nothing more. Why would she sleep with YOU if every random guy is being nice to her? If every guy is doing the same thing?</p>
<p><strong>Now is being nice bad?</strong></p>
<p>No not necessarily, but according to David DeAngelo in Double Your Dating most guys just have a completely wrong approach to dating. Sometimes what works is quite the opposite, and can be very counterintuitive. This proves why a lot of women fall for bad boys. It’s usually because these guys give them a thrill. These bad boys have certain qualities that the nice guys don’t have. Nomatter how bad the guy could be, she still will be drawn to him because of the power of attraction. Women that are involved in relationships with bad guys are not necessarily attracted to the way the guy treats them, but usually to certain qualities he possesses.</p>
<p>These men usually have a strong character. They are masculine, dominant and very confident. They have a certain attitude. These are all qualities women really value in men, says David DeAngelo in Double Your Dating. There is a certain way in which to carry yourself that guarantees success and a certain way in which repels most women, knowing this is of vital importance. According to David DeAngelo Double Your Dating any man can make these little changes within himself that make him appear stronger, more confident and more appealing.</p>
<p>Now on the other hand, most men that fail with women are usually viewed by women as weak. Most of these guys display wussy behavior. It’s timid, shy behavior that is usually caused by insecurity and cluelessness. That said, to be successful with women you have to be in a power position. You should be in control, not her. If you’re not she will not treat you as her equal and will most definitely not develop romantic feelings for you.</p>
<p>David DeAngelo Double Your Dating also talks about the importance of having a strong character. This could be a trait, quality that defines you, something that makes you stand out. It’s about bringing the best qualities within yourself out and really work them. David DeAngelo’s major idea is that &#8220;attraction isn&#8217;t a choice&#8221; – this is also a slogan on his website. He believes women can’t be ‘bribed’ or pushed into experiencing attraction, for example by buying them gifts or acting overly nice. But he believes attraction can be evoked naturally. David DeAngelo says a woman will feel attraction for you naturally when she recognizes particular qualities and traits within you such as confidence, humor and independence. That said, these are all qualities that most men already possess but have to develop. It’s really about bringing the best out in you and putting your best foot forward. According to David DeAngelo you must take effort to improve yourself in every little way if you want to be incredible with women.</p>
<p>His idea of the fact that women appreciate some traits more than others gave birth to his widely known concept, one that he defines as &#8216;Cocky, Funny.&#8217;<br />
David DeAngelo believes in particular that you have an irresistible combination when you mix 2 of the most powerful traits together such as cockiness and humor. Whereas being cocky usually communicates very strong confidence, almost arrogance, humor kind of makes up for it and it creates an interesting combination. One that women absolutely love.</p>
<p>David DeAngelo says in his book Double Your Dating humor goes a long way. And he is right, once you make someone laugh, a connection is made. If a woman laughs chances are she likes you. She is exactly where you want her to be with you. On the other hand cockiness gives you a certain edge. It basically communicates to her ‘<em>that you’re not impressed easily by her looks or whatever</em>’. And she has to try harder. Why it this powerful?</p>
<p>This is extremely powerful, because most guys act the opposite way. Most men drool over beautiful women and put them on a pedestal and without realizing this they lower themselves in social value. They literally give all their power away. I think by now you should understand the power of social value. Social value or high status is of huge importance to very attractive women as they usually only choose to interact with people of their own social status. Also there is nothing more powerful than a guy that stands out. You don’t want to blend in. Guys who blend in don’t get laid!</p>
<p>This is a hard concept to understand at first, but it all comes down to understanding basic human psychology, in this case female psychology. Incredible success with women happens when you learn to view things from the female perspective and act accordingly to it. This is where you have an advantage over other men. When you know how the human mind works, especially the female mind, you have the power to make her favor you over some other guy.</p>
<p>And this is very powerful. This is what successful guys understand. This book does an excellent job of laying out the hidden psychology in much detail and I personally feel this is a very interesting read and a concept you should grasp in order to attract women. It’s a concept, that when once mastered and applied like David DeAngelo teaches in his book Double Your Dating , will shoot your success rate through the roof.</p>
<p>David DeAngelo Double Your Dating also says that most men fail with women because they lack confidence. Confidence, according to popular belief, is something that usually takes years to acquire but David DeAngelo gives you a crash course within his book Double Your Dating on how to develop strong inner confidence within record time… just so that you’re ready to get yourself out there and so that you don’t feel shaky and self-conscious during interactions with women. Once you have acquired this little bit of confidence the rest will almost take care of itself and become easier…</p>
<p>My overall take on Double Your Dating is, I think it’s a very genuine book. David DeAngelo really appears as a cool dude who genuinely wants to help you and believes in your success. He is very honest about what has worked for him and what didn’t.</p>
<p>Double Your Dating is perfect for guys who are in a place in their lives where they feel insecure around women or are completely clueless to what to do around women and how to act. If you’re stuck in a routine of failure, this book might be your rescue, something that will break you out of it and will put you onto a path to success.</p>
<p>David DeAngelo Double Your Dating basically teaches you the A to Z to attracting women. David DeAngelo takes you by hand and literally walks you through every step of the process in his book, from approaching a woman to dating her, seducing her and sleeping with her.</p>
<p>If you’ve ever found yourself in a situation where you’ve approached a woman, opened a conversation but didn’t know how to progress after the opener or got on a date but failed to make it to her doorstep or bedroom, in that case, this will make an excellent book that will help you handle those situations easily. I really recommend this book.</p>
<p>Most books on the other hand that I’ve personally read, usually have difficult, mind-boggling systems into place and some have come up with their own lingo. It’s almost ridiculous. I know David DeAngelo Double Your Dating is an approach that most men will appreciate as David DeAngelo keeps it real and natural. This is perhaps the most natural approach you will ever find, as it doesn’t dictate for you to change drastically, act macho or be someone that you’re not.</p>
<p>So far my Double Your Dating Review. </p>
<p><strong>My final opinion: Double Your Dating, Scam or Legit? </strong><br />
Definitely, not a scam, but a must have book that every man must read, or at least take time to read<em> if </em>he truly cares about his success with women, really takes this part of his life serious and is willing to improve when it comes to dating and meeting women.</p>
<p><strong>Curious or interested in David DeAngelo Double Your Dating?</strong> Visit the following website for more details: <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">David DeAngelo Double Your Dating</a> (FREE sign up required to get access to Double Your Dating&#8230; Instructions on website)</p>
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		<title>How to Get a Girl to Like You – 2 Simple Tips to Make a Girl Notice You</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2011 15:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kyla Love</dc:creator>
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<p>Do you want to know how to get a girl to like you? You&#8217;re not alone… In fact, this question puzzles the majority of men. And honestly, do you really want to be clueless when it comes to the girl of your dreams? Of course not!</p>
<p>I mean, you pass her in the hall way, you&#8217;re tongue tied when she stands next to you in the elevator… Doesn&#8217;t matter where she is, there is one tiny problem, she is not with you. In fact she&#8217;s so far out of reach you just don&#8217;t know what to do to get the girl and make her give you that second look. It&#8217;s a horrible feeling.</p>
<p>So how do you get out of this scenario into one more rosy, where you make her weak in the knees and capture her heart? Read on to find out what makes women really tick…<br />
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<strong>Here&#8217;s how to get a girl to like you:</p>
<p>1. Be her eye candy</strong><br />
If you want to figure out how to get a girl to like you, this one should be obvious. What have you done so far to capture her attention? Chances are you haven&#8217;t done much.</p>
<p>It doesn&#8217;t take much to figure out that we humans like people who manage to impress us in some way. That said, first impressions do count, and her impression of you should be one that makes a BANG, or in other words a huge impact. Keep in mind she is already drawing conclusions about you before you&#8217;ve even spoken to her, so to impress a girl you should appeal to her visually. Try to have confident body language and look your best, meaning dress neat, put on some eau de cologne &#038; get your hair done, when you face her. When she likes what she sees and finds you attractive, you&#8217;re half way there.<br />
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2. Make her drawn to you like a magnet</strong><br />
Understanding how to get a girl to like you and understanding how attraction works, these two go hand in hand. If you ever want to get a girl to like you, you should know how to flirt with a girl and make her feel attracted to you. Looks are not enough. I&#8217;m talking about chemistry baby! This is the part where you approach a girl, talk to a girl and pull out some of your slickest pick up lines and get your game on.</p>
<p>These simple steps on how to get a girl to like you are all you need to win your dream girl over. It&#8217;s that simple. Now the trick to make a girl like you is to master these steps and all its details as &#8216;the quality of your game&#8217; will make it or break it. Your pick up should be as smooth as butter; your attitude, what you say, how you represent yourself, it should all be tight and there is lots to figure out… it&#8217;s enough to confuse any guy, yet all it takes are little directions to get girls to like you.</p>
<p><strong><em>Are you looking for a very effective, proven method to get the attention of a HOT woman fast and want to learn how to interact with women every step of the way? Are you finally ready to get rid of the guessing games &#038; want to have a game so smooth it makes every girl literally beg to be with you, then check out the following website:</em></strong> <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">“The REAL Secret Of Attraction” How would you like to attract any woman you want?</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-4013592-10744806" width="1" height="1" border="0"/></p>
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		<title>How to Talk to Girls &#8211; Tips to Avoid Awkward Silences When Talking to Girls</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kyla Love</dc:creator>
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<p>Guys meet beautiful girls all the time, but most of them are afraid to even come near these girls, because they simply don&#8217;t know how to talk to girls.<br />
Talking to girls doesn&#8217;t have to be hard though, yet most guys get uncomfortable and all tensed up. While approaching girls and starting conversations with them can be very scary there are a few things you can do that will help you lose the tension and make it easier for you to talk to girls&#8230;<br />
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<p><strong>1. What you do is more important than what you say</strong><br />
When talking to girls, keep in mind that 80% of our communication is done through our body language. That is good news for you, because you don&#8217;t have to get all tensed up anymore about every word that you say as it is of little importance anyway. The way you represent yourself, carry yourself is more important than what is coming out of your mouth.</p>
<p><strong>2. Forget about canned pick up lines and scripts</strong><br />
Learning how to talk to girls becomes easier when you stop listening to what others tell you. Most dating experts tell you to practice and memorize lines.There are complete books written on canned pick up lines and scripts. I recommend to stay away from these, as they are completely useless. None of it will help you maintain great conversations. No woman will be impressed if you sound fake, robotic and as if you&#8217;ve memorized every word. Instead, when you talk to girls, what helps best is to loosen up. When we&#8217;re afraid to mess something up we usually put too much pressure on ourselves. Talking becomes hard when we focus too much on finding the right words. Truth is, there are no right words. Sometimes things to say come out of nowhere. Say what feels right! Certainly don&#8217;t try to get a girl&#8217;s approval when you talk to girls.<br />
Just say what you want to say and try not to stress over whether what you said is appropriate or not. When talking to girls try to be yourself and talk like you would talk to a friend of yours.</p>
<p><strong>3. Avoid usual boring topics and don&#8217;t interview her</strong><br />
When talking to girls you can pretty much say almost anything as long it&#8217;s not completely weird or rude. When it comes to conversation, perhaps the biggest mistake you can make is talking about the usual, boring stuff, such as school and work. Try to stay away from these topics when you talk to girls. As long as you keep boring topics on a low, you&#8217;re fine.<br />
Also don&#8217;t go into &#8216;interview mode&#8217; when talking to girls by asking them one question after another, such as &#8220;What do you do for a living? Do you have brothers and sisters? What do you like to do for fun?&#8221; The last thing you want to do is sound like you are on a job interview.</p>
<p><strong>4. Humor &amp; flirting</strong><br />
Replace these boring topics with humor, lots of it. Nothing connects us closer to a person than humor. And when you mix humor with flirting, you have an irresistible combination.</p>
<p><strong>5. Practice</strong><br />
When you talk to girls always keep in mind that practice makes better. I used to be shy myself, but the more I talked to different kinds of people on a regular basis, the easier it became and the better I got at it. When you talk to a lot of girls over time talking will become easy.</p>
<p>If you apply these tips above you will see great improvement in your interactions with women. Perhaps, the best advice of all on how to talk to girls is this; Remember the best conversations happen when there is lots of energy, humor, flirting and spicy conversation. That&#8217;s when our hearts lit up and connections are made.</p>
<p><strong><em>If you liked this article, then you will definitely LOVE this next thing… Your success with women could truly depend on what I&#8217;m about to reveal within the next few seconds. It can really mean the difference between sleeping with a woman or sleeping ALONE. Get all the details here:</em></strong> <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">“The REAL Secret Of Attraction” How would you like to attract any woman you want?</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-4013592-10744806" width="1" height="1" border="0"/></p>
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		<title>How to Get a Girlfriend &#8211; What it Takes to Make a Girl Want You as Her Boyfriend</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Jan 2011 10:30:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kyla Love</dc:creator>
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<p>If you want to get a girlfriend this will be an interesting read. First I want to point out there is a difference between wanting to learn <em>&#8216;how to get a girlfriend&#8217;</em> and learning <em>&#8216;how to attract girls&#8217;</em>. Not only do you first need to ACTUALLY meet a woman, approach her, date her for awhile, before you even talk commitment, there is also another issue that arises.</p>
<p>When you think about getting a girlfriend, you&#8217;re instantly thinking long-term. You&#8217;ve already set your mind to &#8216;<em>becoming serious with someone</em>&#8216;. You&#8217;re not thinking &#8216;<em>Oh well I&#8217;ll just see how things work out between both of us in the long run and just take it slow</em>&#8216;. When you&#8217;ve set your mind on getting a girlfriend, you&#8217;re already thinking with <em>the end in mind</em>. While it&#8217;s okay for you to want to get a girlfriend and desire a long-term partner, it&#8217;s really something you should be cautious about.</p>
<p>I personally hate it when guys pressure me into settling down with them and becoming their girlfriend. I&#8217;m usually not comfortable with a guy who sees me as his girlfriend and has set his mind on &#8216;making it work long term&#8217; right off the bat, before I&#8217;ve even gotten the time to really get to know him and make up my mind about whether I even see him as future potential. It makes me feel stuck and glued to that person from the beginning. I&#8217;d like to have options, but if I like a guy and later he proves to be someone who really intrigues and fascinates me, then this will be a possibility. I&#8217;m sure a lot of women share the same mindset. Never push a girl into becoming your girlfriend. Nevertheless this is the only way to set a great foundation for a good, healthy relationship, instead of forcing it to make it work with the first, best person who comes around the corner. You&#8217;re pretty safe if you don&#8217;t rush things. Take the time to really get to know a girl, before you even think of her as your girlfriend.</p>
<p>That said the best way to get a girlfriend is to date different women. Don&#8217;t try to get into a relationship with the first woman that pays attention to you. You will probably end up feeling miserable and come across as needy.</p>
<p>Though if you really want to get a girlfriend, there is good news&#8230;<br />
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<p>I must point out, most women are usually hard-wired for long-term relationships. Most girls are actually looking for someone long-term, but they do like to keep their options open as well. If your goal is getting a girlfriend, you have an advantage here: Prove to her that you&#8217;re a great guy, the best guy she ever had, and she will definitely be open to making it work long-term and becoming your girlfriend. In a second I&#8217;ll get into how to do that.</p>
<p>Rule of thumb, if you&#8217;re looking to get a girlfriend, you should usually keep quiet about your desire for a long-term relationship. Only if a girl is the <em>first one</em> who expresses that she wants to be your girlfriend and wants to get into a committed relationship, only then you&#8217;re fine to answer her needs and tell her you want the same. Usually it&#8217;s best not to tell her first as it will probably come across as needy, especially early on in a relationship it&#8217;s a no-no. Wanting to get a girlfriend is fine, but expressing this early on will only backfire. It may make things complicated between the two of you.</p>
<p>Now secretly women do harbor a fantasy of a guy who expresses his love towards them. But this both takes time (for both of you). If you&#8217;ve been dating for a few months and she hasn&#8217;t brought up commitment yet, but you do have a feeling she badly wants it, or has been giving you hints, then she is probably just waiting for you to say it (as it&#8217;s her secret fantasy) In this case you can make an exception and tell her you want to be exclusive with each other. She will be thrilled!</p>
<p>But I&#8217;m getting ahead of myself. You&#8217;re here because you want to know HOW to get a girlfriend, and the actual steps to getting to this point with a girl.<br />
Usually for you to even think of a random girl as your girlfriend you need to go through a variety stages with a girl first.</p>
<p>There are certain steps to ‘meeting and attracting women’, if you will. To get a girlfriend you have to approach a girl first, initiate a conversation, then exchange phone numbers, go on a few dates and keep the chemistry and attraction alive, from start to finish.</p>
<p>You basically have to figure out a way to keep her interested and attracted to you all along the way and you should certainly make it past her/your bedroom before you even THINK of her as your girlfriend&#8230; There is a long way to go to get a random girl to that point, but it can be done.</p>
<p><strong><em>If you liked this article, then you will definitely LOVE this next thing… Your success with women could truly depend on what I&#8217;m about to reveal within the next few seconds. It can really mean the difference between sleeping with a woman or sleeping ALONE. Get all the details here:</em></strong> <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">“The REAL Secret Of Attraction” How would you like to attract any woman you want?</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-4013592-10744806" width="1" height="1" border="0"/></p>
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		<title>How to Impress a Girl &#8211; Why the Usual Stuff Guys Do to Impress Girls Don&#8217;t Work and What to Do Instead</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jan 2011 22:01:24 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>So how to impress a girl? It&#8217;s a question that gets asked a lot. Usually I don&#8217;t like to use the word <em>&#8216;impress&#8217;</em> as it puts you in a lower position among the opposite sex.</p>
<p>When I think of a guy who is trying to impress a girl I picture a guy who is basically trying way too hard, one that is showing off in the hopes to win a girl over. It&#8217;s a very weak and submissive position to be in. While a guy should initiate contact, in no way he should chase after a girl or go overboard with everything he does just to impress her. Girls are not impressed by that.</p>
<p>So my key point is &#8211; DON&#8217;T try to impress a girl at all. If you ever wondered how to &#8216;impress&#8217; a girl, this is it&#8230; The best way to impress a girl is not to impress her at all. If this makes no sense here&#8217;s how this approach works&#8230;<br />
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<p>Basically you have to stop acting needy and desperate. Don&#8217;t EVER try to put a girl on a pedestal. Don&#8217;t appear as the guy who worships her and kneels before her and does EVERYTHING for her just to get that little bit of attention.</p>
<p>If this is your attitude towards women, it could be very likely the main cause for your bad luck with women. Try to have a casual attitude towards women. Perhaps this is still a way to make an impression, you&#8217;re just going a little different about it, so I will still refer to this approach as a way of <em>impressing girls </em>(yet NOT in a needy, desperate way).</p>
<p>That said, to really impress girls don&#8217;t be too available or put too much pressure on yourself. Be more of a laidback, cool guy who is just enjoying himself and the company of a girl. If you&#8217;re looking for proven techniques on how to impress a girl this is by far the best advice I can give you.</p>
<p>Girls normally get hit on several times a day and almost all those men go out of their way to impress girls with all they&#8217;ve got. If you have the same approach as these men you will never succeed with women. To really impress a girl you must be different. You must stand out among other guys.</p>
<p>Usually guys who don&#8217;t try to impress a girl or those who appear not interested or seem as if they are not trying at all, have the most success with women. This may sound counterintuitive and in fact it is, but within that hides the  real secret to great success with women. To impress a girl you must be like one of these guys, a bit stand-offish. You must not be overly expressive about your feelings towards the girl you like either.</p>
<p>One approach that is very effective to impress a girl is the <em>&#8216;friend-approach&#8217;</em>. You basically tell a girl you just want to be friends. It works like a charm, especially with the most attractive women.<br />
These girls are used to guys who drool all over them. If you appear as a guy who isn&#8217;t interested at all, she will definitely notice. Be very selective. She is not used to a guy who acts this way, because secretly it boosts her ego to have every man adore her. If a guy seems not interested it will <em>crush</em> her ego and trust me she will do everything to make him feel otherwise about her.</p>
<p><strong><em>If you liked this article, then you will definitely LOVE this next thing… Your success with women could truly depend on what I&#8217;m about to reveal within the next few seconds. It can really mean the difference between sleeping with a woman or sleeping ALONE. Get all the details here:</em></strong> <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">“The REAL Secret Of Attraction” How would you like to attract any woman you want?</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-4013592-10744806" width="1" height="1" border="0"/></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 08 Jan 2011 19:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>So there is this girl you really like, but you don&#8217;t know how to get a girl to like you. ANY GIRL, for that matter! If your life depended on it you couldn&#8217;t figure it out. But yet you really want this particular girl. You come across her a lot, but everytime you&#8217;re around her your throat seems to tighten up and you can barely speak. You try to come up with something to say or do to make her turn her head or give you that second look, yet you don&#8217;t know how to get that girl to like you.</p>
<p>Or maybe you&#8217;re one of those guys who has the feeling as if <em>ALL</em> girls have turned against you. No matter what you do they don&#8217;t seem to notice you. You&#8217;re invisible to them. It&#8217;s a tough situation to be in. Perhaps you feel clueless and most of all stuck, because you aren&#8217;t getting what you want.<br />
Luckily there are a few things you can do to turn this situation around and get a girl to like you.</p>
<p>To figure out how to get a girl to like you first must understand what exactly sparks attraction in women. What she likes in a guy and what appeals to her. Basically you must understand why a girl shows interest in one guy and seems untouched by another. What&#8217;s the difference between both guys? That said to get a girl to like you you must understand what your dream girl wants and give that to her.</p>
<p>Now this doesn&#8217;t mean you should shower her with compliments and gifts or be overly nice to her. This attitude won&#8217;t make a girl like you, but will backfire instead. And it&#8217;s certainly not what women want. So what do women want? Women want a lot of things (LOL <img src='http://www.thecodeofattraction.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':-P' class='wp-smiley' /> ), but overly they will only want to get to know you if their <em>first impression</em> of you is good. A few certain things must be in perfect order if you EVER want to get a girl to like you&#8230;<br />
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<p><strong>- Body language</strong><br />
Before you even exchange a word with her, your body language and how you carry yourself, is the first thing a girl will notice about you.<br />
Have you ever seen someone walk into a room and all of a sudden all eyes seemed to turn on that person? These people have an &#8220;air&#8221; about them, it&#8217;s almost magnetic. This is also the kind of impact you will want to make on a girl. You must carry yourself in a way that makes an impression on her in order to get a girl to like you.</p>
<p><strong>- Your appearance</strong><br />
You don&#8217;t have to be handsome, but you have to take great care of yourself. Be well groomed, get a nice hairstyle, dress nice, smell nice, get yourself cleaned up, shave yourself. Try to look attractive in every possible way.</p>
<p><strong>- First interaction</strong><br />
If you ever want to get a girl to like you the first interaction between you two is going to make it or break it. Lets say you&#8217;ve got her attention. She seems interested and she notices you coming her way&#8230; what is your first interaction going to be? What are you going to say? Personally I don&#8217;t like guys who are too expressive about how they feel about me if I don&#8217;t know them very well yet. It makes me feel a little uncomfortable. Most women need time to get to know a person, adapt themselves and you should keep that in mind. Try not to sound like you&#8217;re trying to hit on her. Be a little mysterious, not too available. A great opener in that case would be a female opinion.  Ask her opinion on something about women perhaps. It&#8217;s a perfect opener because it doesn&#8217;t scream: <em>I&#8217;m trying to get you to sleep with me</em>.</p>
<p><strong>- Personality</strong><br />
Next, your personality. While men are primarily attracted to a woman&#8217;s looks, a woman on the other hand finds a man attractive because of his personality. Women like the way men make them FEEL when they interact with them. You&#8217;ve got to develop a magnetic personality. You have to be teasing, playful, flirty, fun, confident and even a little edgy.</p>
<p>If her overall, first impression of you is great she will be likely more open to interacting with you. While I couldn&#8217;t get into all the details here about how to maintain confident body language and how to go about teasing a woman, I must point out a great impression alone is not enough. While it will spark her interest, to really get a girl to like you you need more. Every interacting moment with her must be one that draws her in more and more into you and it&#8217;s easy to blow it if you don&#8217;t know what you&#8217;re doing.</p>
<p><strong><em>If you liked this article, then you will definitely LOVE this next thing… Your success with women could truly depend on what I&#8217;m about to reveal within the next few seconds. It can really mean the difference between sleeping with a woman or sleeping ALONE. Get all the details here:</em></strong> <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">“The REAL Secret Of Attraction” How would you like to attract any woman you want?</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-4013592-10744806" width="1" height="1" border="0"/></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 21:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kyla Love</dc:creator>
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<p>Most men don&#8217;t know how to approach a girl and how to talk to girls the right way.</p>
<p>When  they approach a girl they keep doing the same things they always do,  the things that don&#8217;t work over and over again excepting a different  outcome. It doesn&#8217;t work like that. Things to talk about with girls just  don&#8217;t come easily to these men.</p>
<p>It could be that you&#8217;re one of  those men who doesn&#8217;t know how to approach a girl and how to talk to  girls. Men have been taught to chase after girls and so you believe you  have to move mountains to get the woman you like. You need to know a  bunch to approach a girl and be good at it too. First of all, you have  to find some interesting topics and things to talk about with girls,  approach a girl, initiate a conversation, keep that conversation going  and make it all work.<br />
It is all up to you if you ever want to be with a woman.</p>
<p>These  thoughts scare men off and it puts a lot of pressure on them. And as if  that wasn&#8217;t enough, there&#8217;s always the treat of rejection which makes  approaching a girl a frustrating process on itself.</p>
<p>Learning how  to approach a girl shouldn&#8217;t be that hard though. It can be pretty easy.  I want to take a minute and change the way you perceive dating. Most  men take it way too serious and act as if their lives depend on it.<br />
Try to perceive it as a game. Don&#8217;t get emotionally attached to it  when a girl rejects you and try to perceive every rejection as a way to  learn and become better.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re probably wondering how to approach  a girl and what to say to her? I must say that things to talk about  with girls are not so hard to come up with either though I recommend to  stay away from pick up lines that you can find all over the internet  these days. If you ever want to learn how to approach a girl here are  some tips on how to do it&#8230;<br />
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<p><strong>1. Body Language</strong></p>
<p>When approaching  a girl your body language is very important. It is the way you carry  yourself and it&#8217;s the very first thing she&#8217;ll notice about you before  you even start talking. You got to have confident body language when you  approach a girl. Don&#8217;t make fidgety movements, smile, keep eye contact,  don&#8217;t shift from side to side, be relaxed and laidback.</p>
<p><strong>2. Opener</strong></p>
<p>There  are different ways you can go about approaching a girl. You can either  let her know that your intention is to hit on her like &#8220;Hi, I saw you  standing over here and I&#8217;m absolutely going to kick myself if I don&#8217;t  tell you this, but I think you&#8217;re really cute.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s called a  direct approach. An indirect approach is when you approach a girl and  you don&#8217;t let her know that your intention is to hit on her. Beautiful  girls get hit on the whole day. Some girls get fed up with guys who  constantly hit on them. Breaking through a woman&#8217;s defensive shield can  be a tough job if you don&#8217;t know how to go about it. The best way to  approach a girl would be asking her for a female opinion on whatever topic.</p>
<p>When  you&#8217;re just starting out and don&#8217;t have steady confidence yet I would  stay away from direct approaches. It takes a lot of guts and confidence. In that case the best way to move into a normal  conversation would be an observation. You can observe your environment  or notice something interesting about the girl and make a comment about  it: &#8220;What&#8217;s the story behind (something that she is wearing that&#8217;s  unusual).&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>3. Close</strong></p>
<p>Now you know how to approach a girl and  start a conversation it&#8217;s time to ask for her number. End the  conversation with: &#8220;Listen, I need to see a friend/I&#8217;ve got to go back  to work now but I would love to hang out some time. Give me your number  and we&#8217;ll figure something out.&#8221; Be confident when you ask for her  number.</p>
<p>Now that you&#8217;ve got her phone number don&#8217;t make the  mistake thinking that you&#8217;ve already GOT THE GIRL. You&#8217;re not there yet.  Even if you know how to approach a girl there are still a lot of things  that you need to do to make a woman want to sleep with you.</p>
<p><strong><em>If you liked this article, then you will definitely LOVE this next thing… Your success with women could truly depend on what I&#8217;m about to reveal within the next few seconds. It can really mean the difference between sleeping with a woman or sleeping ALONE. Get all the details here:</em></strong> <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">“The REAL Secret Of Attraction” How would you like to attract any woman you want?</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-4013592-10744806" width="1" height="1" border="0"/></p>
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		<dc:creator>Kyla Love</dc:creator>
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<p>There are so many techniques to attract a girl with that I could  talk for hours and most of them are overlooked by men. The traditional  ways guys can attract girls with imply that you have to impress a woman,  buy her gifts, be the nicest guy in the world, chase after her and  confess your love to her are hardly going to make a girl feel attracted  to you.<br />
Maybe you&#8217;ve seen this work in movies, but the reality is harsher. It doesn&#8217;t work like that.</p>
<p>Attracting  girls the right way is the complete opposite from what you&#8217;re doing  now. I want to walk you through a few techniques to attract a girl  below&#8230;<br />
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<p><strong>Technique to attract a girl #1: Stop hitting on her</strong></p>
<p>If  you don&#8217;t know how to approach a girl then one of the best techniques  to attract a girl is to not let a girl know that you&#8217;re interested in  her sexually. Most girls don&#8217;t like guys who hit on them. Not to bother  that beautiful women get hit on several times a day to the point that it  becomes annoying. A lot of beautiful women become defensive and bitchy  to get rid of these men. In fact, most men fail to attract girls because  they are not able to break through these defensive barriers. There&#8217;s  only one way to break through a woman&#8217;s defensive barrier and that is to  differentiate yourself from other men. One way you can do that is to  use an opener that turns the focus off her and makes her think that it&#8217;s  not your intention to hit on her what so ever. The best way to do that  is to ask her for directions or for a female opinion on something as an  opener.</p>
<p><strong>Technique to attract a girl #2: Raise your value</strong></p>
<p>Now  that you&#8217;ve started a conversation you have to keep that conversation  going. You want it to be a natural interaction like it is one between  you and your friends.</p>
<p>An observation can be a great way to get a  conversation started. Another great way to attract a girl is to bring  something new to the table. Tell stories, make her laugh. A guy who can  tell great stories or make a woman laugh will raise his value instantly  and at the same time you will differentiate yourself from other guys.</p>
<p>Basically, you&#8217;re trying to make her interested in you. This is not the part where you try to get to know her.</p>
<p><strong>Technique to attract a girl #3: Building rapport</strong></p>
<p>Building  rapport can be as simple as seeking commonalities. When you notice that  a girl starts showing interest you, you can go about it by showing  little interest in her too. Now is the timing right to start asking  questions about herself and get to know her better.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure these techniques to attract a girl will get you started and move you in the right direction.</p>
<p><strong><em>If you liked this article, then you will definitely LOVE this next thing… Your success with women could truly depend on what I&#8217;m about to reveal within the next few seconds. It can really mean the difference between sleeping with a woman or sleeping ALONE. Get all the details here:</em></strong> <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">“The REAL Secret Of Attraction” How would you like to attract any woman you want?</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-4013592-10744806" width="1" height="1" border="0"/></p>
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		<title>How to Attract Girls &#8211; 3 Sure-Fire Ways to Make a Woman Helplessly Drawn to You</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kyla Love</dc:creator>
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<p>Learning how to attract girls becomes easy when you finally grasp how  attraction works with women. Attracting girls can simply be taught like  any other skill and requires basic understanding of the female  psychology. Most men don&#8217;t have that understanding since they have  created false beliefs about girls and have been taught the wrong things  about attracting girls throughout their lives.</p>
<p>Remember how your  mother used to tell you to be nice to girls? Or how your buddies tried  to impress girls and so you thought these were the best ways to attract a  girl and interact with girls? Maybe it worked when you were little, but  the more you got older and kept applying the same techniques to attract  girls they seemed to backfire. You&#8217;ve never made it past the point of  rejection and were never able to figure out how to get a girls phone  number so you ended up feeling frustrated and confused. I want to shake  you and make you snap out of it, because you&#8217;re making it way too hard  for yourself.</p>
<p>Attracting girls really shouldn&#8217;t be that hard at  all. Now that you know that being the nice guy and trying to impress  women is not the right way to interact with women, I want to teach you  some techniques to attract girls that actually <em>DO</em> work. It&#8217;s okay if  right now you&#8217;re not getting how stop being a nice guy can be a good  thing and can add up to your success with women, but I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve had  times that you&#8217;ve scratched your head and wondered why girls always fall  for bad guys. Women say they want a nice guy, but most of the time they  end up with a bad boy. Truth is, most women think they want a nice guy,  but respond to something very different in a man. They certainly don&#8217;t  fall for bad guys because they want to be treated bad but are most  likely attracted to some personality traits that a bad guy possesses,  such as being exciting, fun and challenging.</p>
<p>Learning how to  attract girls is a very counterintuitive process in itself. Both women and  men view dating in different ways and tapping into these little female  secrets can be a huge advantage for you. To attract girls you have to  attain some of these traits that I&#8217;ve mentioned above and make them your  own. Here are a few ways to attract a girl and some traits that most  women find attractive in men&#8230;<em><br />
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<p><strong>1. Showing indifference</strong></p>
<p>In  order to attract girls you have to act as a guy that is not interested  at all. WHAT? Yeah you&#8217;ve heard that right. When you approach a girl,  you have to act as if you don&#8217;t care if you get her number or not. Sure  you do care but the trick is to not let her know. Don&#8217;t even mention  that she looks beautiful.</p>
<p><strong>2. Teasing and negging</strong></p>
<p>Remember  how you used to tease your little sister but were nice to girls who you  liked? Well, what if say that the same rule for teasing your sister  applies to women who you like and it can be used to attract girls. Well  at least in a more mature way.</p>
<p>The best way to tease a girl is to  &#8216;neg&#8217; her. Negging means giving a girl a negative compliment and its  purpose is to make a girl think that you&#8217;re not sexually interested in  her even if you are. Girls love that edgy attitude in a guy.</p>
<p>You  can say something like &#8220;Hey, you are beautiful. Are you an EX-model?&#8221; or  &#8220;Nice perfume. My mom wears the same&#8221; to neg a girl.</p>
<p><strong>3. Acting like a man</strong></p>
<p>Another  way of attracting girls requires for you to act like a man. That means  no wussy behavior. Most girls think a nice guy is no different than a  wussy. Girls associate nice guys with characteristics such as being weak  and submissive and that is not attractive to women. Women want a man  that is in charge, a man who is dominant, masculine and not a <em>softie</em>.</p>
<p><strong><em>If you liked this article, then you will definitely LOVE this next thing… Your success with women could truly depend on what I&#8217;m about to reveal within the next few seconds. It can really mean the difference between sleeping with a woman or sleeping ALONE. Get all the details here:</em></strong> <a href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/click-4013592-10744806" target="_blank">“The REAL Secret Of Attraction” How would you like to attract any woman you want?</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/image-4013592-10744806" width="1" height="1" border="0"/></p>
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